Is Your Spouse Having an Affair?

Is Your Spouse Having an Affair?
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Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you? Trust is the basis of a healthy marriage relationship, and a cheating spouse destroys the trust that serves as the foundation for your union.

If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you, you probably have more questions than answers. Here are signs that your spouse may be cheating.

While these signs can be symptoms of issues other than infidelity, there is cause for concern if your spouse exhibits many of these characteristics.

  • Your spouse seems bored with his job, hobbies, and life in general.
  • She suddenly seems attracted to the concept of thrills and danger.
  • You notice that the intimacy between you has decreased and sex is infrequent.
  • He shows signs of low self-esteem.
  • You find it extremely difficult to communicate because she no longer opens up to you.
  • If you mention infidelity, he becomes defensive.
  • She suddenly begins to show you more attention than usual.
  • He is putting in longer hours at work.
  • She is paying more attention to her appearance than usual.
  • You notice he is spending more money than usual and is secretive about his expenses.
  • Family events, such as birthdays and holidays, no longer matter to her.
  • You catch him lying to you about different things.
  • She suddenly stops going to church with you or praying at home.
  • He seems distant.

What To Do If You Suspect Your Partner Is Cheating

If your spouse displays many of the signs listed above, first recognise other issues instead. It may be infidelity, or it may be something else altogether. It's essential to remain as calm as possible and refrain from jumping to conclusions.

If it turns out that your spouse is cheating, these strategies may help you:

1. Recognize that you're not to blame. If your spouse chooses to meet his physical and emotional intimacy needs outside of your marriage relationship, resist the urge to blame yourself.

2. Know that infidelity may lead you back together again. Instead of giving up on the marriage, you may find that talking things out resolves the underlying issues that led to the cheating. While you may choose divorce in the end, reconciliation may still be possible.

3. Remember that you deserve happiness. Rebuilding trust can be a challenge when the bonds of marriage have broken. But it can be done if both of you are willing to work at it and start over together. You are valuable, regardless of the outcome of your relationship.

4. Talk to your spouse. If you know with certainty that he is cheating, confront him with what you have found. Listen to his point of view, and watch his reaction. If he seems genuinely sorry, you may be able to work things out. If he remains defiant, however, separation may be your only option.

5. Seek help. Confide in friends that are usually upbeat. Seek professional counselling. But whatever you do, avoid battling this alone. Draw upon the strength of the people that love you.

Infidelity can alter the course of your life in ways that may surprise you. It may be the end of the road for your relationship. Sometimes, however, infidelity is the catalyst to fixing the wrong things in your relationship, and you may come through this with a stronger connection than ever.

No matter the outcome, however, there is hope. You can recover and live a life of happiness as long as you refuse to give up and choose to affirm your right to the life you deserve.

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